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SHAWNEE HARLE
MENTAL TOUGHNESS TRAINING
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Teammates giving you the cold shoulder?
How does your child, your athlete handle teammates that treat them like this: ignore cold shoulder eye roll I'm a 2x Olympian and Mental...

Shawnee Harle
Oct 29, 20231 min read


3 Steps to Handle Nerves
No getting around it; nerves are part of sport. No matter how hard you try, they rarely disappear. I'm a 2x Olympian and Mental Toughness...

Shawnee Harle
Oct 11, 20231 min read


Imperfection is Normal
STOP expecting your kids/athletes to play to their potential every time. Learning is full of ups and downs. Growth requires hardships and...

Shawnee Harle
Aug 29, 20231 min read


The PRESSURE is coming. Is your athlete prepared?
Is your athlete prepared to handle pressure? When the game is on line, it's a mistake to rely only on physical skills. It's the ability...

Shawnee Harle
Aug 4, 20231 min read


Goals vs Values. What's the difference, why does it matter?
FOR ATHLETES: Athletes have a difficult time separating who they are from what they do. And it can negatively impact self-esteem. I'm a...

Shawnee Harle
Jun 25, 20231 min read


Mistakes bringing you down? Causing too much noise in your head? Time to SHIFT!
The other day I was playing a very competitive game of pickle ball. My teammate and my opponents were REALLY good. I'm pretty good too...

Shawnee Harle
Jun 17, 20232 min read


WAIT: What Am I Thinking? Thoughts are NOT free.
Are thoughts running around in your head like unsupervised children on a playground; hitting each other, teasing each other, falling off...

Shawnee Harle
Jun 11, 20232 min read


It's time to tell the voice of self-doubt to SHUT UP!
There's a BIG difference between listening to yourself and talking to yourself. What do I mean by that? Well, have you ever noticed what...

Shawnee Harle
May 7, 20231 min read


STOP avoiding your feelings! It's hindering your emotional intelligence. FACE them instead.
The other day I was working with a youth golfer. "I get really nervous before I play. And I'm even more nervous when I'm standing over...

Shawnee Harle
Apr 23, 20232 min read


Playing down to the competition? What's really going on?
I'm working with a 14 year old basketball player and we had this conversation the other day: "I'm on a new team and my parents came and watched me play. I wasn't very good. They said I was playing down to the competition." Hmmm. I could tell this needed deeper examination so I became curious and asked questions. What I learned was this new team plays at a slower pace and things aren't as intense. In other words, the skill level of most of the players is lower than the previo

Shawnee Harle
Apr 16, 20232 min read


FROM it or THROUGH it? What do High Performers do?
When your kids/athletes are practicing/training, are they intentional? Are they mindful? How would you rate them on a scale of 1-10?...

Shawnee Harle
Mar 26, 20231 min read


The Weight of Gold: Inside the mind of a World Champion.
"Shawnee, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm not getting great results. I feel unmotivated and I've lost my spark. Can't wait for...

Shawnee Harle
Mar 19, 20232 min read


How much courage do you need?
COURAGE. It's the antidote to FEAR. I believe it's more powerful and more reliable than confidence. Confidence is an EMOTION. Courage...

Shawnee Harle
Feb 26, 20231 min read


What are you AFRAID of?
Have you ever asked your athlete that question? Have you ever asked yourself that question? I'm a Mental Toughness Coach and it's one...

Shawnee Harle
Feb 12, 20232 min read


Transaction vs Transformation
If we believe we are owed, we expect to get paid. Athletes: "I've put in extra work, now I should get more playing time." "I've worked...

Shawnee Harle
Jan 29, 20232 min read


4 Traits of High Performers
As a Mental Toughness Coach, I've worked with hundreds of athletes, from youth to Olympians. High Performers are that way for a reason....

Shawnee Harle
Jan 8, 20231 min read


Upbeat Thoughts
Did you know you have up to 60,000 thoughts every day? Not only that, 80% of them are negative and 95% are repetitive.* What are you...

Shawnee Harle
Dec 28, 20221 min read


Follow-Up: Coachable vs Compliant
Coachable vs compliant? What's the difference? I posted about this topic a while ago (click here to see it) and have been asked to do a...

Shawnee Harle
Dec 8, 20221 min read


Hissy-fits: Follow-Up
The other day I posted about hissy-fits. If you want a refresher, go here. I'm a Mental Toughness Coach and athletes tell me their...

Shawnee Harle
Dec 6, 20221 min read


No more hissy-fits!
I've said it before and I'm going to say it again: STOP HAVING HISSY-FITS WHEN MISTAKES ARE MADE! Coaches sound like this: "We just...

Shawnee Harle
Dec 2, 20221 min read
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